Of all the elements that impact your sexual habits, choices and interests, who would have thought of the stars?
Yet, according to astrology, the constellations you are born under can shape your personality, experiences and, yes, even your sex life.
This month we explore these truths through the Kings and Queens of the Zodiac: Leos. Outside of the bedroom, they are so very easy to love. Starting with their looks, their demeanor and their aura. The truth is: if you know anyone born under this sign, you know “the best.” As the “lions” of astrology, Leos represent the peak of pride, grace, refinement and a certain sense of royalty.To understand this, simply think of the Leo you know or the Leo you are. Isn’t there something singularly special about them? Whether it’s their counsel, their leadership, their friendship or companionship, a Leo can feel every inch the boss.
And when it comes to the bedroom, the boss is always on duty. Primarily because, in astrology, Leo rules the fifth house. Out of all 12 houses in the zodiac, it is only the 5th that represents pleasure. Leo is literally at home when it comes to matters of sex, sensuality and the pure joy it can yield. Afterall, Leo is regarded as having one of the strongest libidos in the zodiac. Of all the signs, it is here that you can get lost and luxuriate all your senses from sight, to sound to taste and, of course, touch.
Ruled by the Sun, Leo is easily the hottest of the fire signs of the Zodiac. Their passion runs deep spilling over to hobbies, work, people and definitely sex. A fixed fire sign, you are in for two things: a passionate and steady character that also welcomes adventure. So, what does all this mean for the bedroom? Well, if you have a Leo in your sights, it all comes down to this: respecting the distinct style and approach required to secure the attention and affection of the crown. Full of courage, confidence and charisma, there is no doubt that one way or another your Leo is highly sought after. How to stand out and win their affection, passion and more?
ALLOW THEM TO DOMINATE
As a natural ruler of the Zodiac, it’s no wonder that they can be a natural leader in the bedroom. Respect their instinct to take control and indulge in your opportunity to submit. You will be well rewarded for your submission. Leo’s love to dominate and protect and serve and trust they will return the favor when you allow them to express their born instincts.
BE INTENTIONAL IN YOUR APPEARANCE
No one loves finery more than this Royal. In matters of romance this is even more amplified. Your Leo appreciates aesthetics more than you know. Now is the time to throw on that piece that makes you feel your sexiest. You have the perfect audience for it!
KISS THE THRONE
Don’t play coy. If you are entangled with a Leo, communicate your attraction. Genuine compliments are key, so don’t hesitate to share exactly what turns you on about them. Like any royal, they rule the court, but love to be courted.
BE AUTHENTIC IN EXPRESSION
No one can spot a fake quicker than a Leo. And when it comes to matters of pleasure, they are just as sharp. If you can, try not to fake it. This sign thrives on giving you pure authentic pleasure in the bedroom. So, unleash your real feelings or take the time to communicate how to get there.
COMMUNICATE DELICATELY/BE SENSITIVE
They may represent the best, but they are not perfect. In or out of bed, communicate critiques delicately. Leos, for all their brashness and confidence, can ironically be as sensitive as they come. Criticizing, laughing at or patronizing Leo is a no-no and the quickest way to shut off their powerful libido.
TOUCH PROPERLY
In astrology, Leo is ruled by the heart and upper back. As you navigate Leo’s body, be sure to pay ample attention to these parts of the body. Kiss, touch, massage, or more – all will be welcomed by your Leo, who resonates with those areas.
WELCOME COMPETITION
If you love or lust your Leo, chances are you are not the only one. This child of the Sun always has fans in orbit who are vying for their time and touch. Don’t be shaken or lose focus on your lover and stay, or at least appear, loyal. Leo always rewards the most steadfast and loyal of their courtiers.
RULES OF ENGAGEMENT (BY SIGN)
| ARIES | There’s no better match for Leo than you. Lean into your physical energy with confidence. Your natural actions seduce Leo at every turn. |
| TAURUS | Shake off your cool aura and seek passion in your Leo, instead of the things they give you. |
| CANCER | Your feelings are your superpower –and the perfect route to getting Leo to unmask theirs for a truly authentic union, in and out of the bedroom. |
| GEMINI | Get out of your head and show off that brilliant mind: intellect is extremely seductive to Leos! |
| LEO | You’ve found your match here. Learn to take turns to dominate –in the bedroom and out. |
| VIRGO | Your only challenge here is authenticity. If you can’t unearth your real self, Leos’ libido will run cold. |
| SCORPIO | Lift the veil. Your love of privacy is your superpower –but it’s also what blocks the spark between you and Leo from lighting. |
| LIBRA | There’s lots of love and lust in this union. Abandon your quest for balance and let your Leo be in control. |
| SAGITARIUS | You don’t have to do much to attract Leo –except rein it in. They are naturally attracted to your rambunctious nature, but too much of a good thing can be a problem here. |
| CAPRICORN | Your cold climb to the top can be a bit of a turn off! Take the day off –literally– and indulge in lust with your Leo. |
| AQUARIUS | Decenter yourself: in this dynamic, understand how to make it all about your Leo in order to spark the sexual fires! |
| PISCES | Your secretive nature –intentional or not– will always pose a barrier with Leo. Practice clarity to get the fires burning in the bedroom again. |
